Is Dreaming the Happiest Day of Your Life Keeping You Up At Night?


You just decided throw a giant party for the people you care about the most! And everybody’s really happy for you! And you’ve never done this before, and you’re about to discover the vast machine of the wedding industrial complex!

Take a deep breath. And welcome.

Marriage has been a vital rite of passage for millennia — what you’re doing is stitched into our DNA. Marriage partnerships are the foundation of our families and our society.

Oh, also, you’ll always have a date to the movies.

Maybe you’ve been dreaming about your wedding since second grade, or maybe you never thought marriage was for you… until you met your fiancé.

I can walk you through this, right until you walk down the aisle.


My weddings are sacred, spiritual, and unique. I handcraft every ceremony to reflect who you are — in all your magical, wacky glory.

I can weave your unique family traditions together into something that will make everyone feel at home.

I can lead secular ceremonies that will leave even your most Catholic Auntie misty-eyed.

We can land anywhere on the spectrum from Secular to Spiritual — wherever you both feel the most alive.

I’m also here to coach you through delicate family decisions, defuse your freak-outs, and be the grounding force on the day of your ceremony. I’ll help you write your own vows. You’ll laugh and be reminded to breath on your big day — to savor every second.

I already love your family and I can’t wait to meet them. And I especially can’t wait to pronounce you… married.

If you’re ready to talk more, schedule a time for us to chat. We’ll go through all the details and decide if we’re a match.


We trusted her completely

Vera was amazing to work with. My fiance and I had such a hard time finding an officiant who we felt would put in the effort to get to know us and create a personal and meaningful ceremony. It was also tough, because we wanted a mostly non-denominational ceremony, but did want to incorporate a few Jewish traditions, such as the breaking of the glass. Vera was happy to do whatever we wanted! Our search ended after we met with her. She put together such a beautiful and seamless ceremony and even reached out to me to calm me down when my mom was worried I was getting too stressed. We trusted her completely, and she went above and beyond our expectations. Vera is a wonderful, wonderful person and officiant, and I cannot recommend her enough!


Writing Custom Vows

She was extremely patient with both of us in helping us write our vows and planning the ceremony. She was amazing throughout the ceremony and kept us going where we wanted to go.

I cannot imagine having a better officiant!


Small, Destination Weding

Vera was awesome! We had a destination, small wedding. I met with Vera while I was in town for a conference and it was like having lunch with an old friend. We discussed what we wanted and she emailed me a draft. I loved vows and ceremony that she proposed and when the day came I could not have imagined having anyone else there. I was an emotional wreck and Vera was very calming and did a ceremony that we truly felt was representative of our relationship and what we wanted our wedding to be. I cannot thank her enough.

Teresa B.